eye-opener.

[swingchickie]

so i went dancing again last night. "flirty-boy" was there, as usual. it was an odd night... not many people out, there were like 5 guys there and maybe 12 women, so i ended up sitting out a lot. had some great dances with "f-b", but also got to watch him dance with other women because of all the downtime... and i noticed that the extreme flirting wasn't just with me, he used that level on a couple of other people. specifically, the couple of girls there who were really, really young. it looked almost predatory. eew. turned me off almost instantly.

late in the evening, i gave it one last chance. i was leaving the club and he walked out with me... we were alone, it was dark and the moon was full... and all he did was say "good night" and walk to his car. so there you have it... he's a lot of action on the dance floor, but it shuts off when he walks out the door.

he'll still be fun to dance with... but there will be no crazy rebound sex with flirty-boy. alas.

Comments

[weezerthe1.livejournal.com]

bah! men!

just be happy to be free and doing the things you enjoy
rebound sex can get messy and usually isn't worth it anyway

[swingchickie.livejournal.com]

true, true. but the e.b.f. and i stopped any, um, "action" back in january... so it's been a while for me. it would be fun to have a "friend with benefits" for a bit. *grin*

[weezerthe1.livejournal.com]

yes i know what you mean
i have been single now for a while and sexless for almost 2 years
i wish i could find a 'good fucking friend'
but it's not easy
every relationship has a price of some sort