wow, the quality men are just falling out of the sky.

[swingchickie]

message i received from a guy whose okcupid screen name is "bite_fetish":

hi how r you??? nice teeth you have

he's also from iraq. lovely. an iraqi man who wants to fantasize about me biting him.

*weeping openly*

ETA: even better... the guy i ran into last night is now IMing me, asking me to go out with him again. seems that the gal he was with last night turned out to be a controlling, emotional mess, partly because she was jealous that i was there. now he's upset that he might not see me again, because when he met me, he thought i "rocked". great. if i had a dollar for every guy who's ever come back to me after being with another woman, whether we'd had one date or been together for years, and told me he'd made a mistake and wanted to try again... i'd be flying my private jet to work every day. bleh.

Comments

[boutell.livejournal.com]

Maybe this guy really is a waste of your time... or maybe it's cool that he's reconsidered and decided you're the bee's knees? I mean, it's not as if you guys already had a big Relationship and he cheated on you and came back to you and cheated on you and OMG and etc.

Just a thought. I've never had that particular problem, the frequent-flyer prodigal-son thing. Plenty of other problems... but not that one. I don't recall anyone ever "crawling back," let alone crawling back and forth.

So I don't really get how much you probably hate absolutely anything with even a little bit of broccoli in it.

Oh well, you have other irons in the fire anyway!

[swingchickie.livejournal.com]

i agree, it's not like we had anything big. i mean, really, i was hesitant about a second date with him to begin with, mostly because he's too laid-back about everything -- showed up to meet me in old wrinkled shorts instead of trying to make a good impression, forgot to call to arrange our second date, etc. etc. i just found that the way he handled yesterday didn't add anything endearing. telling me that he should have gone out with me this weekend instead of that girl... i honestly don't mind that he had a date, it just hit a nerve with me the way he talked about it after. welcome to my quirks. *chuckle*

[boutell.livejournal.com]

P.S. Re: "if I had a dollar..."

"Tempted" came on the radio in Benna's this morning. I looked up from the crossword and said to Nancy, "boy, if I had a dollar for every time I've been alarmed by the seduction. You know? Just wished that it would stop."

"Oh, yes, Tom? And how many dollars would you have?"

"Um... I'm not sure I could cover breakfast."

[krisdance.livejournal.com]

I would listen to your gut on the second guy. Run the other way and run fast! This is coming from someone who has not listened to her intuition in enough situations.

What does it matter anyway?

[the-cook.livejournal.com]

Seriously - you've got some other interests, a new house and you were less than thrilled with this guy anyway. He had a date, he didn't have a date; doesn't matter. Just politely decline a second date for the best reason of all, you don't want one.

And, while I don't know the man, nice job using "bee's knees" by Boutell.